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“We become what we think about all day long.”

– Ralph Waldo Emerson

“You see it. Feel it. Believe it and then act on it. You mentally and emotionally align with the desired outcome and then act like you can’t fail. The inner work inspires the outer work. Your inner world projects to your outer world.  The two work together.”

 – Robert J Barnes

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The only barriers in life are the ones you accept. Happy people tend to attract happy people and happy situations. And, it goes beyond personality. You are a molecular structure in a very high-speed of vibration. If you’re in a vibration it means you’re on a frequency. If you’re on a frequency you are attracting things to you based on that vibration. Misery loves company. If you are miserable you attract miserable people into your life. If you feel empowered you are uncomfortable in the presence of grumps. It is because your frequencies do not mesh. Feeling powerful will attract experiences to justify your feeling. But there is more…


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“I didn’t worry even when I didn’t have any [money]. I was living on a can of soup every single day. And I would eat it out of the can because I didn’t have a kitchen. I would live paycheck to paycheck, but I never worried. I was living. I think that’s part of my mentality about money. My parents always worried about it, and we never had any. You put that energy out there, and it’s like, ‘Well then, we’re going to give you what you’re asking for.”- Ellen Degeneres

Managing mood through your thoughts, focus, health, and gratitude is helpful. But it is not just about mood. It is about desire and acting on that desire. It is about making decisions and then dissecting out of your life that which does not matter. It is acting intelligently and enthusiastically toward your goal and maintaining a passionate endurance that becomes second nature. And, it is about setting an intention with full confidence that it will manifest in whatever way it unfolds. And then letting the intention and expectations be – as though you planted a seed. You will nurture that seed through feeling what that you already have accomplished your desire and by keeping your attention on what you are doing in the present to achieve this desire.

You want to increase your productivity, happiness, and income by, say 400 to a 1000% ? This is how it starts.

How many times have you looked back on your life and thought you should have at least tried? We talk ourselves out of things. How many times have you looked on your life and thought you can’t believe you actually pulled that off?

With  me, the accomplishments that were surprising happened when I was inexplicably cocky and light-hearted. You know like, “I don’t how I am going to pull this off I just know that I am.”  I would shrug and chuckle to myself about it. I would roll with that feeling. The other times, frankly, I was pissed off and simply charged ahead without giving any thought to failure. Something lit a fire under my butt and I just did it. I didn’t know about any of this stuff back then. In both mind-sets failure did not even occur to me. And, I wasn’t distracted. I was either having too much fun doing what I was doing. You know what I mean? When everything is going right and you keep surfing that feeling. You don’t want to stop. Or, I was just to hell-bent focused to be bothered with the miscellaneous trivialities. And I didn’t want anything to do with people who were not going to be on my side.

Breaking that down: Effectively, although not consciously, I shed my BS; got rid of all the excuses and defences that held me back from achieving my potential. I streamlined my peer group. I stopped being so politically correct, and most importantly I stopped wasting my time and energy on people and projects that don’t pay off.  And I had this feeling that it was all going to work out no matter what which I now realize was my connection to source. I was empowered through vibrational alignment. 

Can you think of similar experiences?

I can also honestly say that when I thought about things too much I would sometimes find reasons not to bother. Or, I was mentally defeated and just going through the motions. This happened too many times. Then I was down and felt like I lost my mojo. I was disempowered.

Thoughts matter and thoughts become things so you might as well get a handle on them and have them work for you and not against you. The law of attraction when combined with inspired and supportive action is powerful. The more we interact with the material world the more material the Universe has to work with. Your world is the effect not the cause of your thoughts and feelings. When you react, the event controls you. When you respond, you’re in control. 

I give you strategies, metaphysical and evidence based, that enable you to take advantage of the law of attraction in the most productive way.

What makes this approach different – in a nutshell…

With the law of attraction, too often, physical action is de-emphasized or even dismissed. That is a misinterpretation due to the marketing around Law of Attraction. Movement and supportive action makes it easier to keep a positive focus and build momentum.  Inner work is mandatory. Balance the inner work with outer work. Too much in-action gives doubt a chance to creep in.  And even when things are going great – DON’T STOP the inner work! Time is our most valuable commodity so don’t wait for things to be perfect. Make them perfect.

Ground yourself (creates a sense of belonging and contribution), get your thoughts right around your set intention (that’s the magic), and take steps in the right direction (movement and momentum go hand in hand). Inspired action is a catalyst. When your thoughts are right you will look forward to taking action that supports attracting your desire. Detaching from the outcome while staying present in the support of achieving  your goal keeps the flow going. Developing a positive, upbeat outlook and envisioning success, regardless of circumstance, strengthens your ability to create the things you want in life. I show you how to do all of this. If this makes sense and resonates with you then I’m your guy.

The purpose of Life Energetics is to blend spiritual modalities with evidence based strategies to effectively use the law of attraction. Life energetics works on an energetic, mental, and emotional levels to help you get excited, build and maintain momentum, and to create on the physical plane. One must experience the law of attraction for themselves to know that it is real. Give yourself to it and see for yourself.

law of attraction coachRewiring your brain, supportive habits, accessing mental flow, mindfulness, the Law of Attraction, comfortably delaying gratification for greater productivity, supportive action, visualization, confidence building, charisma, authenticity, intuition,  and improving your ability to cultivate happiness and joy play major roles in the Life Energetics. Your desire will decide what I bring into the session.

If you want to attract a hot romantic partner and new car, that’s fine. That can be fun. I can help you with that. However, it would be wise to also consider pursuits that are congruent with your life purpose. Continually progressing toward something you have a passion about creates lasting fulfilment. If you are not sure what your life purpose is, it starts with being genuine. Get in touch with your true self and ignore what society tells you who you should be. I can help if you need it.

Getting in touch with your true thoughts and feelings aligns you with your purpose. And, the universe provides a strong wind for you to set your sails to when you are living your life purpose. It would be a shame to miss out on that by only focusing on social status, material possessions, and ego gratification. Nothing wrong with fun material things and you have free will to enjoy such things. But the good feelings the shallow pursuits produce are fleeting. Combining purpose with the Law of Attraction is a powerful elixir for lasting fulfillment.

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Trust me, doing what you love never feels like work but you may be more active than ever – because you love it. That’s called passion. You won’t tire. The money will come. If you can not immediately switch to do precisely what you love then find purpose and fulfillment in what you are currently doing. If you can’t do what you love then love what you do in the interim. You will expand beyond your current circumstances and new opportunities will arrive. Stay positive and focussed on the present. When you do your LOA processes, that is when you focus on the future. Of course, I can show you how to do this.

  • Law of attraction Do feel like you can accomplish more?
  • Has your progress halted?
  • Would you like to feel happy and fulfilled?
  • Would you like to increase the number of high quality relationships in your life (#1 indicator of happiness)?
  • Are you a conscious creator or are you asleep at the wheel?
  • Do you think your life could be more than what it is?
  • Would you like to know how to apply LOA in practical way to everyday life situations?
  • Do you have unfulfilled dreams?
  • Have you been practicing techniques from “The Secret,” but nothing you asked for has manifested?I can help. I facilitate your connection with source energy and the law of attraction, a force for healing, recovery and remarkable growth. I help you remove the resistance to desires that many of us unknowingly create.
  • I can use reiki to enhance the process.

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The simple act of investing financially in coaching makes for better results. It is just a truth of human psychology. If you invest financially, you signify to yourself, and send a signal to the Universe, that you are serious about growth and progress. The result is that you follow through where you might have let it slide. So, let’s do this! It’s fun.


More Information on Life Energetics and the Law of Attraction 

We live in a material world i.e. the physical plane. With the law of attraction sometimes setting an intention and letting it go is all you need to do. However, often it is best to do more than setting an intention and leaving it with the Universe in its energetic escrow. Depending on what the intention is, you may be able to speed it along by becoming more involved. You are a “co-creator,” after all. The inner work is setting the intention, nurturing it with positive energy, standing in your power,  and learning to connect with your own innate wisdom. Build that energy and take action; any step no matter how small will start the momentum. Soon your action will be inspired.

Working with passion and joy will be the physical expression of your inner work. Authenticity leads to desires congruent with your life purpose. There is a strong current of support for your life purpose. You may feel lucky or unstoppable. Obstacles will not dismay you. There will be more opportunities. Taking inspired action will not feel like the drudgery associated with “hard work” as long as you keep your eye the prize and support your inner energetic rhythm.  Who you are being is what you will attract. And, yes it’s true, sometimes you may not have to take much action at all. The law of attraction works. Suspend your ego’s scepticism and explore your emotional honesty. You don’t have to prove anything to anybody else. Learn to feel truth. Get connected to that and you will obtain a higher truth. If this resonates with you then I’m the guy you should be working with.

The key to the law of attraction is to do routinely inner-work that inspires efficient and fulfilling outer-work so that the expansion you experience on the journey becomes the cake – and the goal, the icing. In other words, there is no need to completely delay gratification. You learn to find gratification in the growth. Think “I am” rather than “I am going to …” Strategize for the things you can’t control but your confidence comes from focusing on the things you can control such as the time you put in, the abilities you have, and the skills you developed. Visualize how what you can control will lead to your success. Most people’s end goal is happiness and lasting happiness comes from progress in whatever endeavour you chose. I can show you how to do that. I am not aware of any other LOA coach that does this.

With enough energy moving in the right direction, you’ll reach a tipping point where breakthroughs can happen in an instant. It will seem like a switch has flipped. Things become smoother than they are now, and you will feel less resistance. You experience more “luck”, and you stay calm and confident in the face of illusory obstacles. How great would that feel?

It’s like taking care of your body. If you eat right and exercise every day, you are guaranteed results. With this, you learn to think right and do your inner-exercises daily. It becomes part of your rhythm. It is a fact that your brain will physically adapt to your main thoughts. Sending out a positive attraction and strengthening your aura will soon become a habit.

The belief in the law of attraction is, in itself, powerful because faith is powerful. But the processes I use would help you even if the law of attraction wasn’t real.

I think there is an energetic creative influence that you can take advantage of when setting an intention referred to as the Law of Attraction. What you think about and how strongly you feel about it, greatly influences how your reality plays out. You are sending out signal to the Universe. The clearer and stronger the signal, the more powerful the effect. So you don’t want your signal to get weakened with doubt and or cluttered with distraction. In my coaching, I use a multi-pronged strategy so you are not just sitting there wishing for stuff.  But, most people don’t know how to powerfully set an intention. I have devised a way that benefits you whether LOA is real or not. But, I believe the law of attraction is real and the strength of your faith correlates with better results. To get in touch with me start here ♥

The Law of Attraction is working in your life, period. There will always be an abundance in your life. It is just an abundance of  – what? That is up to you and when you accept your responsibility for the life you created, you acknowledge your power to make to make changes. Your thoughts are a vibration; everything is.  And like vibrations attract to each other. The stronger the faith the stronger the vibrations. The more consistent the focus – the more consistent the attraction. And yes, take supportive action. Jim Carey, early in his career, after driving to the top of a hill and visualizing being a huge success every single day, did not then go home and laze about. (What message would that send the universe? Do you want it or not?) However, once in that empowered state he wanted to make things happen. And that’s a big difference from “trudging along” or “grinding it out” until you get your big break. It doesn’t feel like work when you’re inspired. So, get your mind and emotions right. Set the intention. Let the universe do its thing and you do yours with all the confidence in the world. You learn to trust life.


[Using Tantric energy/sex and the Law of Attraction together for couples manifesting together – coming soon . . .]


“What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.” – Mark 11:24

“By the time this fight is done I would have made more money than my whole life working as a plumber.  . . . This is the law of attraction. When things are going good and you visualize these good things, that’s easy. What’s not easy to do is when things are going bad, and you’re visualizing the good stuff. And that was what I was able to do. Even though I was having these troubles at home, and even though I had no job, and nothing was happening, I was still able to feel like it was.” — UFC Champ Conor McGregor

“Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase. Just take the first step.” – Dr Martin Luther King Jr.

“Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.” –Helen Keller

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?’ Actually, who are you not to be?” — Marianne Williamson

“Self-confidence is the first requisite to great undertakings.” — Samuel Johnson

“All that we are is a result of what we have thought.” – Buddha

“I am still learning” – Michelangelo at aged 87

“Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life’s coming attractions.” – Albert Einstein

“Discipline is success and the mother of salvation.” — Aeschylus, c. 500 BC

The reason we’re successful, darling? My overall charisma, of course. Freddie Mercury

“The reason we’re successful, darling? My overall charisma, of course.” — Freddie Mercury

“All that we are is a result of what we have thought.” – Buddha

“Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life’s coming attractions.” – Albert Einstein

“Discipline is success and the mother of salvation.”  — Aeschylus, c. 500 BC

“A strong spirit transcends rules.” — Prince

“one thinketh in his heart, so is he” — Prophet David

“Great men are those who see that thoughts rule the world” — Emerson

The mind is its own place and in itself can make a heaven of hell or a hell of heaven.” — Milton, Paradise Lost

“There is nothing either good or bad except that thinking makes it so.” — Shakespeare


Robert coaches for specific purposes. He also has a course for those who wish to learn all about the law of attraction for their life and to, perhaps, become coaches themselves; you can be tutored and coached at the same time. Contact Robert for scheduling. This course is one on one but if one wish to split the cost with a friend that is fine.


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